Spatting

Do Christian couples have just as many issues in the married life as non-Christians? I would say yes, they are just different. My husband and I have now been married for 3 years and with the 3 years I have given birth 3 times. I guess you would say we have had to change alot in a very quick time period. I feel with all the change have come our disagreements, yes even as Christians we disagree. Does disagreeing with someone change the way you feel about them. I guess this is where I find the difference between Christians and non-Christians. Although Bob and I may disagree and have our spats here and there, I never feel any different about him. I still love him through our spats. Some may say as a Christian you should not argue and get upset with each other, if you are one of "those people" please give me some advice , I could use it. Through our spats I somewhere find myself asking for forgiveness from my husband and from God. Many would let there disagreement turn to bitterness, and than bitterness turn to hate. Let's all wake up and realize as Christians we can not allow Satan to come in and try to destroy our marriages over pity disagreements. You may have a spat here and there but let's remember God loved us first so we could love each other.